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| I wanted to wait to share details of my engagement with everyone face to face, but seeing as I won't see most of you for a few weeks, I'd thought I'd just post it.
On Saturday morning, Nicholette and I hiked up Lion's Head Mountain with four other friends a group of. Lion's Head is the smaller pointy mountain right next to the more famous Table Mountain. I wanted it to be just the two of us on the hike, but there have been muggings on the mountains around Cape Town, so to make it safe we went in a group. Everyone in the group knew of the proposal except Nicholette.
The hike took just over an hour. Once we reached the top. Everyone took time to soak in the view and take a few pictures. Once several minutes passed, my friend Eric told us that he wanted a picture from down below looking back up of us. He's a photographer, so Nicholette fell for it. When the other three left with him, she was curious, but didn't think much of it.
There were still a few other hikers right there at the top, so I told Nicholette that we should go over to the ledge so Eric could see us and take a picture from down below. She seemed nervous about going to the edge, so I told her we would just get close to the edge and not on it. She agreed. So I went ahead so I could get the ring out of my backpack. I went behind a rock and got it out just before she could see what I was doing. I held it in my hand opposite of her so she couldn't see it.
I put my free arm around her. I began to shake. This was it! I told her, "I love you" for the first time ever(We decided early on in dating to not say "I love you" unless we got engaged). I knelt down on one knee, lifted up the ring, and asked, "will you marry me?"
She just stared at me in surprise, she didn't even look at the ring. I had to ask again, "will you marry me" Just a surprised look on her face, no answer, making me nervous. I asked two more times. She fell on her knees and finally said "YES" and told me "I love you" At this point she still hadn't looked at the ring.
After telling each other we loved each other several times and after much hugging, she looked at the ring and I put it on her. We took a few pictures, then headed down to meet our friends who were waiting for the news. Every hiker we met that was heading up we announced we had just got engaged. One woman told us "your marriage is starting off on the rocks." About halfway down, my friends had set out a blanket on a big flat rock with wine glasses and sparkling grape juice. I didn't even know they were going to do that.
Nicholette is already back in the States and I will land August 2nd. We don't have a date for the wedding yet, but I'll let you know as soon as possible.
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| Dear Friends and Family,
I've been in South Africa for 5 months now and my time here is winding down fast. The most exciting thing for me so far is my recent engagement to a wonderful Christian woman named Nicholette! We have been dating for a year and a half and when she came for a visit last week and I popped the question. I plan to send another email telling you all about that.
Now, here is what we have been doing here. We recently sent the first installment of the Zambia Project video to the Western Province of Zambia. There is a missionary there by the name of Paul VanColler who has planted 65 churches. His biggest dilemma now is discipleship. So here in Cape Town we put together some basic teachings on what the church is, sin and repentance, and prayer. These are simple teachings that Paul can send with the solar powered DVD players when he can't go and teach. Travel is very difficult in the area. There is no electricity in Western Zambia and therefore, no TV. So what we hope and imagine will happen in the villages there is that the people will be attracted to the technology, gather around the DVD player and watch the teachings over and over again. If there is fruit from this, the potential for this type of teaching is HUGE!
Another thing I like about this project, is that the students here at Cape Theological Seminary, with what I have been able to teach them, can continue making these videos once I leave. One of the students, Shayne Philander, is excited about sending more Gospel teachings to the tribes in Zambia. He thinks the impact for the Kingdom could be great. Please pray that the video ministry is fruitful and strengthens the church in Western Zambia.
I've also been working on a church video for the Ridge Community Church. The Ridge Church was planted about a year ago and is growing well. It is about a 30 minute walk from where I'm staying. I'm working with the Pastor Edwin Williams to produce a video he can give to visitors and use as a commercial to broadcast locally.
This past Sunday, I visited Pastor Selwyn Fali's church in Crossroads Township. My original intention for visiting the church was to take Nicholette into the township safely so she could see up close what township life was like. On Saturday evening (the same day we became engaged), Selwyn asked if I would preach the next morning. For some reason, I said I would. When we arrived at the church, Selwyn had us sit up front facing the congregation. He asked Nicholette to share her testimony. She wasn't prepared to do that but she did a great job. Selwyn translated for her into Xhosa, the local dialect.
As I spoke, Selwyn translated into Xhosa for me as well. I find that speaking through a translator is actually easier than normal because you always have a few seconds to think about what you are going to say next. At the end of the service two women came up and accepted Christ as their Lord and Savior!!! This was definitely the work of the Holy Spirit and not anything I did. This was very exciting!
Nicholette flew back to Springfield on Tuesday. I'll be back to Missouri on Aug 2nd.
God has been doing many amazing things since I've been here. I came to teach media, but I've definitely learned more than I have taught while I've been here.
In Christ, Ross | | |
| DearFriends,
Much has happened since the last time I posted. In early March, I made a six day trip to Mozambique. Iwas invited to go with the Pastor Anthony Liebenberg of the localCape Town church, Atlantic Christian Assembly (ACA), to the cities ofMaputo and Quelimane. ACA has planted a church in Quelimane and somemembers that have been discipled in the church in Quelimane are nowmoving to Maputo to plant another church. I got really great footageof the church plants in both cities, along with footage of themission projects that each church is pursuing. The footage is goingto be used to help raise support for the mission projects in bothcities. I am nearly finished editing that footage.
One of theguys that came to know Christ from the Quelimane church plant is Rue.He is 26 and about 5'2''. He is leading a prison ministry inQuelimane of about 60 men. On my last day there he took me to theprison. While we were walking there, he told me I was going to havesome time to speak to a group of the prisoners! Not being a confidentpublic speaker and being totally unprepared to speak and walking intoa new environment, I started praying asking for God's help while Iwalked the rest of the way.Theprison was initially built for 150 men. It now holds 750! It doesn'thave cells like we are used to seeing in the States. The prison ismade up of two large areas. One area is where all the prisoners sleepon the floor together. The other area is one big courtyard. Prisonersare served one meal a day. Some of the prisoners who are morefortunate get more food delivered from family. The prisoners werevery friendly to me. As I walked in, many of the prisoners came up togreet me with big smiles on their faces. In the middle of thecourtyard is a small hut about 10ft x 15ft. It is the hut that isused by Rue for his church services. Rue led me in and in minutes thehut was packed. There were even men leaning in from the outside allaround the hut. They began by singing a couple of praise songs. Theyspeak (and of course sing) in Portuguese so I just clapped along andlistened. Although I couldn't understand the words, I could sensetheir true joy through their singing. After the songs, Rue introducedme and gave me the floor while he served as my translator. I toldthem that I could sense their joy. Then I talked about how theyreminded me of the apostle Paul, who also spent some time in prison.I told them that while they may be in prison, they have more joy thanthose outside of prison who don't know Christ as their Lord andSaviour. I encouraged them to be a witness to the other prisoners.When I finished, they thanked me for coming. Rue told me I did a goodjob. Praise God! It was an amazing experience and one of the coolestthings God has ever done through me.
Things back in Cape Town have been progressing as far asteaching media goes. I've challenged the students to start producingvideo announcements during chapel here at Cape Theological Seminary.Four students have already put videos together and two more are goingto do a video announcement soon. It serves as a good first project,something that they have fun with and also gives them practice withthe video production process starting from forming an idea, producingit, and showing the finished project to anaudience.
A missionary recentlycalled me to go to Rustenburg, South Africa to visit a TV studio thatAssemblies of God World Missions is trying to turn over to thenational church here in South Africa. The missionary who was incharge of it is leaving the country and is leaving the studio behind,so I was called up since I have a media background. I did a fullinventory of the equipment for insurance purposes and also determinedwhat equipment needs to be added in order to get the studio runningat full potential. The goal is to make the studio a tool for theInternational Assemblies of God (a South African national church) andnot just a tool of missionaries from the States.
Please be inprayer that the media teaching I am doing will be enough to keep themedia students going with the media after I leave in late July.Please pray for me also, as I have been afflicted with Montezuma'srevenge for that last two weeks. Along with the obvious discomfort,people are starting to ask if I'm losing weight. As you know, I'mskinny, so losing weight is not something I'm wanting to do.
Thanksagain for all your prayers and support. I recently received manyletters from you in the mail. Thanks so much for that. It's a greatencouragement to get letters from you. I couldn't be here if itwasn't for all of your support.
In Christ, Ross | | |
| Hey xanga friends,
I'm in Cape Town now. God is doing awesome things here. I
hope He is doing awesome things back in the States as well. God
Bless.
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